“Finding yourself.” Nearly everyone wants to do it, and many are willing to pay for the trip. It’s worth the effort because when you find yourself, your true self, you dwell in authenticity, creativity, and power. Right?
Not so right. Unfortunately, the Western idea of finding yourself goes only half way. After all, what we discover when we find ourselves is what the German philosopher Immanuel Kant called “the crooked timber of human-ity.” Kant said, “Out of the crooked timber of humanity, no straight thing was ever made.”
As Kant knew, what we do with ourselves after we find ourselves is the real work. After we find ourselves, there’s a whole lot of sawing and hammering and sanding and shellacking to be done. As a matter of fact, we’ve got to saw, hammer, sand, and shellac ourselves every darn day. Perfection isn’t the goal. A life well-lived is the goal.
One tool we can use is a working definition of integrity. In my mind, integrity is born out of a match between inner ideals and outer action. For example, if creating justice is my goal, I can’t just seek to discover what justice means in the abstract, I need to determine what justice means in my own actions toward the greater whole.
Sure, “finding yourself” is great. But it’s only a step in the right direction. Next we’ve got to grab some tools and work on that crooked timber of ourselves.
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