If you follow r/unitarianuniversalist, you may have read a similar post I wrote on that subreddit.
I love Unitarian Universalism. But I have questioned getting to be in fellowship with other UUs at church.
When I first learned about UUism, I attended my local UU church for 10 consecutive Sundays. And while I often heard from the pulpit that all are welcomed and heard a number of church members tell about how wonderful it was to be in fellowship with the people of the congregation, no one had introduced themselves and welcomed me. I stopped going since I went away to college but came back for the following Summer. The congregation started doing handshaking to those around me. I'd often get a hello, what's your name, but that'd be it.
While away at college, I attended a UU church and found them quite welcoming. People would remember my name, say hello, spark a conversation and invite me to small group meetings.
I just moved again and visited my nearest UU church. I was noticed as a new person by an usher who encouraged me to attend their coffee hour. Tried introducing myself a couple times but people just said hello and passed by.
I have attended about four other UU churches a couple times and usually get the same experience. So I do question how welcoming do you feel UU churches are to new people, in your experience?
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