so. i discovered unitarian universalism and i found that i wholeheartedly agree with everything that it stands for and i really wanted to join. unfortunately i live in a small polish town so there aren't any congregations near me or even in my country. so i started to look for ways to get engaged online. i was hoping to find a community of interesting people open to new ideas who would help me grow as a person. this is not what happened.

i requested a link to join an online meetup of unitarian universalists in europe, but i was never replied to. today i attended a zoom meeting of yuup. it was fun, don't get me wrong, but there was only like 15 people there and 1/4 of them were mods. i was sent a link to a discord server that is mostly dead and has a rule against dm-ing people.

so here i am asking: am i doing sth wrong, or is this it?