Hi :) recently got to have a weekend away with a lovely bunch of UU people and before dinner, they'd light a chalice and share things they were grateful for. Kind of like prayer, but just to each other and the world. it just left the sweetest feeling for me. I'd like to incorporate this into my life, but I'm wondering about some other things I can do to feel more connected to my faith. Any suggestions?

Hey all. I have been UU a long while, in and out of attendance for various reasons, but I've finally found "home". This church is everything I ever wanted--people are kind, genuine, compassionate, and there are so many social opportunities for people of all ages. My partner and I are looking to membership right now but we'd like to know more about membership dues and what that looks like. I know I'll be fine to have this conversation with the minister, but I'd like to have a more candid conversation about dues and it feels disrespectful to discuss with him. Can I ask what they look like for you? What is it based on? Am i reporting my salary to the church? My partner was raised baptist and they expected 10% of your household earning--something we definitely cannot support. What happens if you want to leave?