So me and my wife have been ex-christians for 4 years now. She's agnostic I'm atheist. Practice witchcraft on occasion. Normal shit. We are ungodly lonely. We live smack dab in the middle of the Bible belt and when we left the church we lost all our friends and family as we became "exiled" .

Anyway went to our local UU church and like it was cool but I don't understand it. I don't understand any of their core beliefs or unifying core messages. Everything I see is "Oh it's everything" but like yeah... Why? Why have church without the core of what makes a church. It's like a pencil with no lead to me. Can any of y'all explain it to me?