Any stories about how these two ideas are misused? Especially when used for conflict between a congregant and staff?

I was raised a UU. I stopped going to church in my teens. Was always an atheist or agnostic.

Recently have been learning more about Jesus, but not really willing to call myself a Christian. I think one of the best things about being raised UU is having the awareness that all people from all around the world are equal, I don't need to believe "my way" is correct, and the billions of people who follow any other religion are wrong. But ya I haven't gone to a service in a long time but still think I mostly identify as a UU just believing no one way is correct and all people have the right to believe in whatever they choose.