There are people who follow directions, and there are those who take a more, shall we say, flexible approach. I am the latter. It’s...
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There are people who follow directions, and there are those who take a more, shall we say, flexible approach. I am the latter. It’s...
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Last month, in a fit of despair, I emailed my minister and some other leaders at our church and said LET’S DO SOMETHING! Let’s...
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The holidays can be a tricky time for parents. On top of the pressure to give my kids the childhood memories of pine-scented trees...
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Say what you will about 2016, but one thing’s for sure: it has not been boring. In fact, it’s been a whirlwind of emotions,...
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Ahhh…SEPTEMBER. I have been writing a post in my head for the past several weeks titled The Fresh Start of September or something like...
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A couple weeks ago, I was stopped because I didn’t use a turn signal. The officer took my license, checked to make sure the...
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In a few weeks, I will turn another year older. It isn’t a milestone birthday, which means it is generally one of those...
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I heard the news about Orlando in bits and pieces yesterday morning. A headline on Facebook. A talking head on the television. A...
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They say the road to perfection is paved with mistakes and bad decisions. Or something like that. In any event, I make lots of...
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I cried this morning. I cried for no reason and for all the reasons. Sometimes that happens. I had been reading through this essay that I...
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When I first started this website four years ago, I didn’t have a clue what I was doing. Truthfully, I’m not sure that I’m...
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Last fall while I was out for a walk, I passed a young mom on the street. When I first saw her from a...
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“I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, ‘If this isn’t nice, I...
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I went swimming this morning. This might not sound like that big of a deal, but up until two weeks ago I hadn’t been...
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Little did I know, four years ago, when I sat in my friend Angie’s kitchen, this is what would happen. As I sat on...
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The phone rang in our motel room around 9 a.m., startling us all. In 1987, motel room phones only rang if it was a...
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After my oldest son was born, I found it nearly impossible to leave the house. We lived in the city without on-site parking so...
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January has been a long slog of a month. If there is one word that comes to mind when I think of the past...
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A few years ago, I wrote an essay about smashing windows. Not actual windows. But the figurative windows that distort the ways that I...
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“What am I doing?” I stand in the middle of the kitchen and ask this question aloud, even though there is no one...
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Author’s Note: I have had a version of this post – originally an essay – on my computer for weeks. While I worked to...
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We’re moving into the season of the two G’s — gratitude and giving — and I recently read two articles that, separately, talked about...
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I am not an overly sentimental person. Emotional? Yes. Dramatic. You bet. But sentimental? Not particularly. I didn’t keep a pregnancy journal. I don’t...
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I have a list of parenting regrets about a mile long. Wasting money on an expensive rocking chair and signing my three-year-old up for...
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I have never been to Paris. Well, unless you count that one really stressful layover at Charles de Gaulle Airport last summer. Which I...
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Author’s Note: This essay was written more than a year ago, the situation described happened over two years ago, and since then the scars...
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If there is one piece of advice that I have heard more than any others, it is this: Develop a thick skin. I’ve heard...
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Soak it up, the radio DJ told me yesterday afternoon while I drove home after dropping Teddy off at school. The weather was warm and...
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Every day, it becomes a little bit clearer just how little I know – as a parent, as a writer, as a woman. Just...
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My grandparents raised their family in a tiny, brick bungalow on the west side of Milwaukee. The size of the house was inversely proportionate...
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Fairly early on in our marriage, my husband and I made the mutual decision – the merits of which I am not looking...
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“Tonight’s the night the world begins again” — Lyrics to “Better Days” by Goo Goo Dolls As they say, everything old will be new...
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A couple days ago, while I was at the gym elliptically my way to nowhere, I read this post right here. It is big...
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It seems that the sky is, in fact, falling. Well, not necessarily the sky, but the ceiling. To be specific, the ceiling in our...
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“People who don’t stay down after they fall or are tripped are often trouble makers. Hard to control. Which is the best kind of...
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“Some of us have great stories, pretty stories that take place at lakes with boats and friends and noodle salad.” — “As Good As...
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I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but it happened. Was it sometime this summer? Or did it happen before then, maybe last fall?...
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In September. That’s what I’ve been telling myself for the past three months. When will I clean out the over-flowing dresser drawers? In September....
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Don’t worry; this isn’t going to be one of those letters. You know the kind. Some well-intentioned and wise adult writes with a just-trying-to-be-helpful...
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As a writer, most of my work is done alone. It is just me, my computer, the wild horses running through my head, and...
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“And did you get what you wanted from this life, even so? I did. And what did you want? To call myself beloved, to...
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We hear so much lately about all the Internet trolls and nastiness on the web these days, but what we don’t acknowledge enough are...
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I stand at the podium, sweaty hands clinging to my notes. My right knee shakes a little. I shift my weight and it stops....
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“Let us go forth, the tellers of tales, and seize whatever prey the heart longs for, and have no fear. Everything exists, everything is...
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“You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one” — John Lennon, lyrics to Imagine I’ve been quieter here, in this...
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Note: This post was in response to a question posed by the TODAY Parenting Team, in which they asked members to share their summer...
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It’s summer – which means kids home from school, trips up to Wisconsin, last minute playdates, visits to the local public pool, and not...
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The last thing I need is another holiday with its overinflated expectations and endless chores. So when Jackson suggested a new family holiday –...
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I don’t write about my husband much. Today is an exception. Matt and I met nearly 16 years ago on a hot and muggy...
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When I first moved to Chicago 13 years ago, one of the things that intimated me most was the CTA train system, commonly known...
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Though the weather here in the Midwest indicates otherwise, we are firmly entrenched in Spring. It is now mid-May. Or maybe even late-May depending...
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Let me just start by stating the obvious: I miss you. We’ve been friends for 20, maybe 30 years, and although we have...
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Last night, Teddy announced that he had made me a really awesome card for Valentine’s Day. “At school,” he clarified. “I made a really...
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You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting....
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When I was nine years old, my grandpa was in a plane crash. While this event has been woven into the fabric of our family’s...
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“How to write: Butt in chair. Start each day anywhere. Let yourself do it badly. Just take one passage at a time. Get butt...
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We all know that Monday mornings are hard. Mondays are about gritting our teeth and showing up. But you know what comes in a...
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“For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To...
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“I look out the window sometimes to seek the color of the shadows and the different greens in the trees, but when I get...
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Sometimes you need a good, long cry in the car. The past few days have been hard. Really hard. That isn’t easy to write,...
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